Employees are always two steps ahead of the leadership team and people know when a speaker is blowing smoke. Example: when President Clinton uttered the words: “It depends on what the meaning of the word "is" is. If "is" means is and never has been, that is not, that is one thing. If it means there is none that was a completely true statement.” The nation stopped, scratched their heads, tried to comprehend that tangled web, and then knew he was lying. There was no longer a question about it.
If
someone is about to lose their job, stress will inevitably and immediately
enter into their life. Be prepared for a negative fallout.
Last
night, Brad Pitt was a guest on the on Real Time with Bill Maher . Bill made the
observation that Pitt could kill a nun on top of a pile of dead puppies and
people would say, “Oh, that Brad. He’s just so darn cute.” Though a graphic
image – at best – his point was that bad blows aren’t quite as painful when they
are delivered by a well liked, well respected and well trusted individual.
If
you are a parent, you can appreciate this. When I ask my daughter, “Who ate all
the brownies” and she him-haws around with excuses and blames, I tend to get
even madder. “I did,” will work nicely and the punishment will be much less
severe than if you give me time to digest the excuses. Rip off the Band-aid. Convince
your employees that both you and they are part of the comeback.
People
will automatically blame poor leadership as the reasoning behind any failure. It
is important to plant the seed of solutions immediately following the announcement
of a difficult situation. Also, let your employees in on what they can do to
help. If a situation can be remedied and your employees feel sincerity on their
leader’s part, chances are a great deal of them will follow suit. When Franklin
Delano Roosevelt took office on March 4, 1933, the nation was deeply troubled.
Use
storytelling and metaphors.
What
would a good sports story be if the main character didn’t become the underdog
and face hardships and challenges only to come out on top? Who hasn’t cried at Rudy? That is what I thought… NO ONE! When
people are thinking about their jobs, they aren’t as concerned with entertaining
the public but by using a riveting “Phoenix
When
Microsoft came out with PP, it was a giant leap for business professionals everywhere.
No longer is your entire audience high from magic marker fumes. PP can be a
great resource but when you are speaking on behalf of a sensitive subject, it
is best to leave the PP out of it and speak directly to your audience and use undeviating
eye contact.
No
one wants to hear a doom-and-gloom story, but as adults your employees know when
their leadership is going overboard with promises. In Dr. Martin Luther King’s
famous speech I Have a Dream, Dr.
King eloquently elucidates the plight of the average African American in 1963.
Though a grim time, Dr. King rallies his fellow man, not by insulting his
audience’s intelligence by sweetening the truth or by assuring them that in
2008 an African American man would become president of the United States, but
instead he very wisely chose these words: “I say to you today, my friends, that in spite of the
difficulties and frustrations of the moment, I still have a dream. It is a
dream deeply rooted in the American dream. I have a dream that one day
this nation will rise up and live out the true meaning of its creed: "We
hold these truths to be self-evident: that all men are created equal. I have a
dream that one day on the red hills of Georgia
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